“Breaking Up is Hard to Do”, crooned Neil Sedaka in the 1960s hit. He was right. Of course he meant romantic relationships. What I want to discuss is the relationship you have with your “stuff”. Whatever the reason: divorce, death, relocating or just plain old downsizing. Letting go of some or all of your possessions can be nearly as emotionally difficult as letting go of a personal relationship. At Rusty’s, we see it every day. We talk to people who are ready to talk about how to let go of the stuff. But that doesn’t always mean they ARE ready.